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Lockdown Blues

It’s been a minute since I wrote an article on here that was about what’s going on in my life, so as life seems to be returning to some semblance of normality here in Taiwan, bear with me while I explain what I’ve been up to for the past two months.

Let me start with the first few weeks of May.

Prior to May 2021, Taiwan had for the large part completely contained the spread of COVID-19 and while the rest of the world was suffering through the pandemic, it was pretty much life as usual around here, save for some extra precautions - mask mandates, contact tracing, social distancing, etc.

Due to the government’s tight control, contact tracing and the quarantine system, people had this false sense of security, so even though the government had started to receive shipments of the AstraZeneca vaccine, few people felt the need to actually go and get it, as they figured they could eventually just pick and choose which vaccine they could take when the time came. Similarly, the opposition party in government was doing whatever it could to disseminate as much disinformation about the AZ vaccine as possible to undermine the government’s efforts to have vaccines imported.

So, with some of the supply about to expire, I signed myself and a few of my friends up to get the vaccine, as authorities were hoping that they could get anyone a jab who was willing to take one so that they wouldn’t go to waste. As far as I was concerned, it wasn’t an issue - my parents had already had their vaccines back in Canada, and they lived to tell about it.

Jökulsárlón Glacier Lagoon

Part of the issue here in Taiwan is that the media can be a very dangerous thing, and had already convinced people that the AZ vaccine in particular was terrible, and that Taiwanese deserved better - or something like that. There’s been this constant game of political tug of war here in Taiwan with vaccines, as world supply is low, and a certain portion of society succumbing to disinformation, and of course China is doing whatever it can to block Taiwan from access.

Nevertheless, I got my first shot on May 11th.

As we were sitting there waiting during the mandatory 20-30 minutes of rest after taking the shot, the daily CECC Press Briefing came on, and the proverbial shit pretty much hit the fan. Taiwan was about to enter an extended period of community spread, and that sense of security that we all had was sadly about to come to an end.

Over the next few days things started to get worse, and the government being proactive about containing the virus mandated a level two lockdown, and then a level three. They did seem completely flustered about the whole thing though. It as almost as if they exerted all their effort ensuring that COVID didn’t break thorough, but when it did they didn’t really have any idea what to do.

The word “lock down” is a bit of a contentious one, because was it really a lock down?

There have been lock downs all over the world, but Taiwan’s wasn’t really wasn’t the same.

Having already taken the vaccine, I was a little less worried about what was going on, but being a Boy Scout, I knew that it was best to stay prepared, so I went out and purchased a bunch of food and toiletries just in case - remembering the last time that there was a scare that people went out and hoarded food and toiletries.

When level 3 eventually started, restaurants and bars across the country were forced shut - many turning to food delivery services to maintain their business. Likewise schools, cram schools, kindergartens, etc. were all forced to close their doors, which caused obvious issues for families with parents who still had to work.

Taiwan has an incredibly weird attitude when it comes to the concept of “WFH” (Working From Home), and many employers actually required their employees to continue showing up for work everyday, despite the obvious problems that it could cause.

From the start of the ‘lock down’ until now, the daily CECC updates, which are broadcast at 2pm every afternoon arguably became one of the most important parts of our day, learning the latest results and the actions that the government would be taking. While all of this was nothing new to people around the world, people in Taiwan were having a hard time believing that the defenses in our COVID fortress could be breached.

Quiraing

While the rest of Taiwan was facing a period of uncertainty, in that we’d all have to do our part to stay home and social distance, I was having separate issues that made things even worse.

If you follow me on any of my social media, its not likely that you’re aware of this, as I did my best to put on a positive face whole time with uplifting daily photo posts about ‘how great we’ve been doing’ and how ‘we’re going to get through it together!.

One of the biggest challenges during this period was that while I was stuck at home for several weeks, I was alone the whole time. Well, not exactly alone, I did have my dog with me. But I think even he was getting sick of me after a couple of weeks.

On the day that the ‘lock down’ started, my partner in crime was admitted to the hospital and was scheduled to have surgery to have a tumor removed. The tumor, which eventually came back as cancerous meant that she’d have to undergo at least a six month period of intensive chemotherapy treatments.

Taking into consideration that she was in a hospital in Taipei, which was where the outbreak was wreaking havoc, I wasn’t able to spend any time with her in the hospital. But having personally gone through a battle with skin cancer during my university years, I understood what she was about to go through.

Even in normal times, hospitals in Taiwan have a weird rule about visitation, and since I’m not considered immediate family, she had to rely on her mom to take care of her various hospital stays.

After her first surgery and her first chemo treatment, she was safely back at home recovering and I finally had a reason to leave my home - and as you can see from the photos below, in a show of support, I let her take an electric razor to my head and shave it all off.

Due to lockdown, I wasn’t able to get a haircut, so why not, right?

So, for the first few weeks of the stay-at-home lockdown, I rarely left my apartment, watched an incredible amount of Netflix and passed my time working on photos from years ago, applying new post-processing techniques that I’ve learned since then. Suffice to say, as much as I tried to keep myself busy, I started to understand how people around the world have felt since this terrible pandemic decided to change all of our lives.

From the outset, I figured I could get quite a bit of work done on my blog, but as I’ve discovered, its really hard to work from home on this stuff, which is why you’ll often find me sitting in coffeeshops plugging away with my writing. There’s just far too much to distract me while I’m at home.

My level of productivity suffered tremendously, and thats why I haven’t really posted anything on here.

Even though I haven’t done much of any work on my blog, or taken any new photos over the past few months, I have worked quite hard on my photo archives and I’ll come out of this with hundreds of photos that are considerably improved upon, at least from how they looked when I first published them years ago.

Reynisfjara Beach

Fortunately now that we’ve reached August, life has started to return to normal. People are back to work, restaurants are opening up and people are able to move around a bit more freely. It’s been tough, but the people of Taiwan (for the most part) have done an amazing job following the governments advice and showing this virus who’s boss.

For the longest time Taiwan was one of the worlds most successful countries in battling this pandemic, and even though we’ve had a setback, I think the people of here have shown the rest of the world that when society cooperates and people care about their neighbors as much as they care about themselves, that this virus can be controlled.

Now that I’m fully vaccinated, my partner is out of the hospital, and I’m back to work - life is starting to return to normal and the sense of doom and gloom that people had been exhibiting has turned into pride for the strength people have shown during these past two months.

Making things even better is that Taiwan has really shown up on the world stage during the Tokyo Olympics. They’e not over yet, but Taiwan has already had its best-ever outing at the games, and people all over the world are taking note of not only Taiwan’s athletic successes, but the humanitarian values that the people of this country share with the rest of the world.

Sunset at Boracay

We’ve all had setbacks this year and last, but we’ve come to a point where I think we’re permitted to start feeling positive about the rest of the year - But, that doesn’t mean that we can let our guard down again.

The photos I’m sharing today are a collection of a few of those that I’ve been working on since the lockdown started - Some are from Taiwan, but many of them are from my travels in recent years to places like Iceland, Scotland, England, Ireland, Italy, Vietnam, Thailand, Okinawa, and the Philippines.

I won’t spend much more of your time blathering on and on, enjoy the photos and stay safe!

Taiwan 🇹🇼

Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

Iceland 🇮🇸

Italy 🇮🇹

Okinawa 🇯🇵

Korea 🇰🇷

Vietnam 🇻🇳

Thailand 🇹🇭

The Philippines 🇵🇭

That’s it for now, I’ve got quite a bit of stuff ready to go for the next little while, so I should be posting regularly for the rest of the year. I do have a considerable amount of writing to do over the next little while, so if you’re looking for me, I’ll probably be sitting in a coffeeshop somewhere between Taoyuan and Taipei!


2020 in Review

In what has become a yearly tradition, I took some time to go back and read over my year-end review for the previous year, while preparing to write this one.

Looking back, all I can say is that we were probably all a little naive. 

There we were (once again) foolishly thinking that new year would somehow usher in some much needed positivity and world peace. 

Yet within days, 2020 dashed any hope of that happening as a global pandemic reared its ugly head. To say it has been a terrible year for the world would be an understatement. 

People have lived under lockdowns, lost their jobs, lost family and friends and have lived in fear of this virus all year long. And unfortunately, it looks like that is going to continue well into 2021.

Fortunately, it seems like we can end the year with the hope of vaccine distribution and an eventual end to all this pandemic misery. 

Here in Taiwan, the government was prepared for the onslaught of the COVID-19 pandemic and despite trying to warn the rest of the world before things got out of hand, those warnings were largely ignored by the World Health Organization.

Then a few months into the pandemic people started realizing that the WHO wasn’t really doing its job and that Taiwan was one of the only countries in the world that had successfully taken on the virus, while so many others stubbornly fell victim.

From the outset, the Taiwanese government acted quickly to close the borders, set up quarantine centres and a vigorous contact tracing system in addition to promoting social distancing and mask wearing measures.

Having already suffered through SARS, the people of Taiwan had no interest in the same thing happening again, so the measures implemented by the government were followed and a genius rationing program created by Taiwan’s amazing Digital Minister, Audrey Tang, ensured that every citizen and resident had access to masks until there was an ample supply for everyone.

My Unusually Normal Life in Taiwan Amid the Global Pandemic (Bloomberg)

Record 200 Days With No Local Case Makes Taiwan World’s Envy (Bloomberg)

The year of unexpected successes in Taiwan (East Asia Forum)

How Taiwan Beat the Coronavirus (CNBC)

President of Taiwan: How My Country Prevented a Major Outbreak of COVID-19 (TIME)

Then when the mask situation stabilized, Taiwan started a mask-diplomacy program with the slogan #TaiwanCanHelp that saw millions of masks sent to friends and neighbours around the world.

I might be beating a dead horse here, but even though it has been a rough year for so many countries, Taiwan has done an excellent job showing what this beautiful nation is capable of and why it is so important that it be allowed to contribute on the international stage.  

For those of us like myself, who aren’t citizens of this country, but are lucky enough to call Taiwan home, we have benefitted greatly by all the hard work of all those in the government and health care community.

Their tireless work with the cooperation of the citizens of this country has allowed us all to continue going about our daily lives in somewhat of a normal manner.

I’ve always felt a strong sense of pride about being able to live in Taiwan, but this year I feel blessed. 

That being said, not everything sucked this year.

2020 was a year where WOMEN LEADERS got the job done.

President Tsai, Jacinda Arden, Sanna Marin and Angela Merkel, among others showed the world that female leadership makes the world a better place.

The environment is still in jeopardy, but this year carbon emissions fell by the largest amount ever recorded, ownership of electric vehicles is on the rise, over a billion trees were planted and renewable energy continues to grow!

We’ve reevaluated our priorities, how we approach our professional lives and for better or for worse, reconnected with family and friends in a way that many of us never had time for.

And for some couples, all that time spent together helped them realize that they probably weren’t soulmates, after all - Coronavirus-divorce became a real thing in 2020.

Which is kind of hilarious if you think about it.

In many ways, we’ve grown as a civilization throughout this pandemic and the lessons that were learned are some that I hope will continue well into the future.

Personally, I can’t really complain too much.

I’m fortunate to have been able to continue my life in ways that most people can’t back at home couldn’t.

I’ve taken trips, I’ve gone to movie theaters, went to live concerts and even saw the Phantom of the Opera live in Taipei.

Meanwhile my family back in Canada has been forced to endure several different lockdowns and has more or less bunkered down for months.

Like so many other industries around the world, photography (especially travel photography) has taken a big hit and over the past twelve months, most companies have stuck to purchasing whatever stock photography is readily available, rather than contracting someone for new photos. This is completely understandable, as no one wants to put others in harms way. It has forced countless photographers to go looking for work elsewhere and has put quite a few people out of business.

I’ve managed to keep busy with personal projects but my income took a big hit this year. Nevertheless, I’m happy and healthy and can’t complain.

As we enter the new year and vaccines start to become available, it’s important that we collectively keep in mind that we still have so many other problems to solve.

We’ve faced this pandemic head on and many of us have lost family and friends along the way and even though the world continues to be a messy place, we have a responsibility to work together to solve problems, rather than making them worse. 

I think that if we’re able to take something away from this year, it’s that we’re often our best selves when we’re faced with hardship and tragedy. Amid all of our struggles and disappointments throughout this very long year, the human spirit has endured, heroes have emerged and we should be able to come out of this stronger than ever before.

Plans for the New Year

When I write these yearly review posts, I like to look to the future direction of this blog and what you can expect to see over the next few months.

I’ve recently added a new section to the website with galleries of photos with recent work. I’m often so slow to post blogs after I take photos that people often wonder what I’ve been up to. This new page should help with previews of new work and should also give an indication of what to expect in the near future!

I have a couple large travel guides coming up for some locations on the East Coast. I actually have quite a few places to write about from my most recent trip to Taitung and Hualien.

So I’ll actually start to fill up the east coast on my blog map, which is sadly still rather empty.

There won’t be much of a shift in direction for my on-going projects this year, I’ll continue working on visiting places from the Japanese Colonial Era as well as trying to complete my work on the Martyrs Shrines.

My focus on the colonial era will specifically focus on railway-related buildings, the restoration of dormitories, police stations and Martial Arts Halls, among others.

I hope to include some more travel guides for mountainous areas like Taiping Mountain (太平山) and Alishan (阿里山) while also hoping to get back to some of Taiwan’s highest mountain, in addition to another trip to Yushan.

More or less, I’m going to continue along the same trajectory and will also do my best to continue updating older posts, like I have this year.

As usual, for my end of the year review, I’m going to link some of the blog posts from this year that I’m proudest of, as well some of my favourite photos. I’m also going to provide a list of your favourite posts, based on how much traffic they received over the year. 

My Favourite Blogs of the Year


When the Taiwan Railway Museum had its soft opening, I visited to check it out and was delighted with all the amazing work that went into restoring the former Taihoku Railway Building and its transformation into one of Taiwan’s hippest new museums. 

It certainly took me a while to finish this post, but as it is probably the most in-depth article on the web about the history of the building and the museum, I think it was worth the wait. 

I’m a huge fan of this museum and as the restoration work is on-going, I plan to visit MANY more times in the future.

I think you should too! 

Linkou Guanyin Temple (林口竹林山觀音寺)

One of my earliest posts of the year, there is something epic about this jaw-dropping temple.

Even though the photos for this blog and most of the writing was done in 2019, this was one of my favourite temple-related posts of the year.

This extremely photogenic temple is a testament to Taiwanese architectural design, artistry and careful attention to detail. Visiting this one is a visual spectacle akin to that of Roman cathedrals.

Chinese Assembly Halls of Hoi An (會安華人會館)

After my January trip to Vietnam, I embarked on a project of researching and writing about the overseas Chinese Assembly Halls of Hoi An, which is a topic that is not covered very well in English.

The Assembly Halls, of which there are a handful, were all constructed in the UNESCO World Heritage port town by the various groups of Chinese traders who immigrated there hundreds of years ago. 

Acting as a cultural and religious community centre, the Assembly Halls were important for the preservation of culture and language and have become important destinations on the list of places tourists while in town.

With this blog, I introduced the purpose of the Assembly Halls and gave a brief introduction to each of them, with links to the articles about each of the individual halls.

This is a project that took up the first few months of the year, and I’m happy that they’re all available for when tourism starts to perk up again. 

The Taoyuan Valley (桃源谷步道)

Regretfully, I didn’t get to post too many hiking blogs this year.

So I thought with this one, I’d go all out. 

This in-depth post about the popular Taoyuan Valley hike contains photos from the two times that I hiked the mountain this year and provides information on all of the trails that hikers can take to complete this awesome hike.  

Chiang Mai’s Silver Temple

People seem to think that I visit a lot of weird places.  

One of the weirdest places I visited this year was Chiang Mai’s Silver Temple, which is, you guessed it, silver. 

This Buddhist temple is a weird and wonderful work of art that comes across as excessive, but is also a nod to the community of silversmiths that have made a comfortable living in this neighbourhood for centuries. 

But yeah, it is weird, it’s a male-only temple and there are a lot of strange things going on in terms of the art on display, from murals of aliens to the Avengers. 

Suffice to say, even after visited a Taiwanese temple with a real-life mummy on display, I still consider this one stranger.

But I also recommend everyone visit! 

Your Favourite Blogs of the Year


While I’m not entirely sure what happened, my post about the Wanli UFO Village started attracting quite a bit of traffic both domestically and internationally.

A few months ago I was even contacted by a local media outlet for an interview about the village. Which I ignored, because.. well... That media organization sucks and they’re gone now! 

While there has always been a niche crowd of enthusiasts who love these pod-houses, for some reason they attracted attention from all over the world throughout the year and catapulted this post to number one in terms of traffic. 

Looks like I’ll have to update this one with better photos.

Buddha’s World Abandoned Theme Park (佛陀世界)

In a situation similar to what happened above, the ‘Buddha’s World Theme Park’ here in Taoyuan attracted quite a bit of attention and pushed it up to my second most popular post of the year.

In this case I wasn’t contacted by the local media, but when it was randomly shared on social media, people kind of fell in love with this weird semi-abandoned amusement park. 

I’m actually planning a return visit to the park to get some better photos. With all the attention the post has been getting, I’m kind of embarrassed by the quality of photos on the post. 

I’ll likely update the post sometime in the new year. 

Thousand Island Lake (千島湖)

This is another one that kind of confuses me.

I wrote this post a few years ago and at the time only provided a few mediocre photos and a little information.

I guess though, there isn’t much information about the ‘lake’ in English on the internet, so quite a few people arrive at my site looking to find out more. 

This is another one that I’m going to have to update this year, because I don’t think the photos or the information on the post are up to my typical standards. 

Pingxi Crags

Over the past few years, my post about the Pingxi Crags, one of the most popular day-hikes in northern Taiwan has consistently been one of the most popular.

Even though it got pushed to number four this year, it’s one that constantly attracts new visitors. 

This is why I updated it earlier this year with new photos and updated info. 

I guess the long-lasting popularity of this hike means that it’ll be a popular post for years to come.

And if you’re living in Taiwan and haven’t hiked it, what are you waiting for?

Sacred Mother Trail (聖母登山步道)

The ”Sacred Mother Trail”, known in Chinese simply as Matcha Mountain (抹茶山) is another one of those recently popular hiking trails in northern Taiwan. 

These days the trail is packed with (wannabe) Instagram celebrities and models thanks to the picturesque rolling green mountain slopes on neighboring mountains near the peak that are thought to look like massive lumps of matcha, a variety of Japanese green tea.

This hike has become so popular that not only will you find Instagrammers, but also their entire families, their dogs and also a bunch of foreign tourists.

Should you try to hike this one? Definitely. I’d just avoid weekends if at all possible.

Cyberbullying And Harassment In Taiwan

This one is kind of a (dis)honorable mention.

One of the most highly visited articles on my site this year was actually a post about my experience with cyber-harassment over the past couple years with a deranged stalker. 

I didn’t want to include it in my top five blogs as the article wasn’t photography related, but considering how it accumulated tens of thousands of visits and would have been my number three most-viewed blog post, I thought I should at least give it a mention. 

I hope that the large amount of visitors to the page weren’t showing up to learn about a bit of drama, but instead hoping to learn how to protect themselves from a similar experience. 

Thankfully, the Taiwanese government is looking at ways to solve the problems that I addressed in the blog, so hopefully other people won’t have to suffer through the same stupidity I have had to.

Social media can be great, but there are a lot of scary people. Be careful!

My Favourite Photos of the Year


Swimming at the “Secret” Cave

While hanging out on Orchid Island, one of Taiwan’s off-shore islands, I got to spend quite a bit of time swimming, cliff jumping and laying on beautiful beaches. One of the coolest places that I got to visit was a not-so-secret, secret cave where the ocean water is just a bit warmer and you get views like this. 

I’m in the process of writing and working on a travel guide to Orchid Island, which I’ll probably post sometime early in 2021. You’ll see more photos like this one soon enough! 

The General on Film

One of the highlights of the year on the religious calendar in Northern Taiwan is always the Hsinchu City God Inspection, which turns one of Taiwan’s most high-tech cities into complete chaos and celebration in the late stages of the summer. This year I brought one of my film cameras along for the ride and got this really nice portrait of one of the Underworld Generals.

I’m currently in the process of planning and organizing an exhibition of film portraits like this one at a really nice local art space here in Taoyuan, which should happen sometime in the new year.

I’ll probably be announcing that soon enough. 

Resting on the Trail

As I mentioned above, I hiked the beautiful Taoyuan Valley twice this year in preparation for my post about the hike. The first time I did the hike, the weather was forecast to be really nice, but it took a turn for the worse, so I didn’t end up getting the photos that I wanted. On my second attempt the weather was really nice for about 75% of the hike before it started to rain.

While on the way to the top, I stopped in at one of the beautiful pavilions set up for weary hikers and chatted with a couple of older hikers who were having their lunch. After eating, one of them laid down and I took this shot of him relaxing with the beautiful mountains in the background. 

Technically speaking, its not a great photo, but one of the things I love about hiking in Taiwan is that all the seasoned hikers you meet on the trails are all so friendly and even though I often find myself chatting with complete strangers, they rarely ever ask the typical questions that foreigners get on a daily basis. 

National Concert Hall Reflection

Even though the Worldwide Pride Parade is generally held in June, Taiwan’s parade, most often the largest of its kind in Asia is held in late October.

This year though, with COVID wreaking havoc across the world and cancelling many of the world’s celebrations, a smaller parade was organized in Taipei to show solidarity with those who couldn’t march.

The parade ended up being a smaller gathering of only about a thousand people, but it ended up being fun, despite the torrential downpours that forced most of us to squeeze together under the “Liberty Square” gate at Chiang Kai-Shek Memorial Hall

I took this photo of the National Concert Hall, with its reflection on the rain-soaked ground just after the rain let up and the photo became quite popular on social media. 

Monks looking back in Chiang Mai

Just before COVID started spreading around the world like a wildfire, I took a trip to Vietnam and Northern Thailand, where I hung out for a couple weeks just before Taiwan’s Presidential Election. 

One of the highlights of my visit was the northern Thailand city of Chiang Mai where I ate amazing food, hung out in laid back coffee shops and toured some beautiful temples.

One of the coolest places that I visited on the trip was the ‘SIlver Temple’, which is one of the oddest places of worship I’ve ever been to. 

While inside the (male-only) shrine room, a couple of visiting monks came in to check it out as well. I got this shot of them while one of them who turned around to check me out. 

Halong Bay Landscape

What can I say? Halong Bay is beautiful and for a landscape photographer, it’s a paradise. 

Unfortunately the weather kind of sucked on the days that we were there. 

Nevertheless, visiting this iconic bay was one of the highlights of my year. 

Taroko Gorge

I’ve been writing this blog for so many years, traveling around Taiwan and introducing the nation’s tourist destinations, but one of them has always eluded me - Taroko Gorge. 

Well, that problem will be remedied early next year when I post a travel guide for one of Taiwan’s most highly visited National Parks. One which I hope to expand upon several times in the near future. 

I’m a fan of this photo not just because its from Taroko Gorge, but the sharpness of the details of this age-old wonder of nature. 

Qingshui Cliffs

One of my favorite places to visit while in Hualien has always been the Qingshui Cliffs

The cliffs are absolutely beautiful and it doesn’t matter if you’re taking photos from atop a mountain platform or on the beach, the views are spectacular. During my trip to the East Coast, I made sure to stop by the cliffs to check out the view before heading further into Taroko National Park. Fortunately this time I was able to see some new views and see how things have changed in the years since I wrote my article about the area.

I’ve now updated the post with more in-depth info that should help travelers quite a bit. 

As always, I hope that despite all the terrible things that happened this year that we can all return to some semblance of normalcy soon. This has been a rough year for the entire planet and even though we’ve ridden out most of the storm safety here in Taiwan, family and friends throughout the world haven’t been as fortunate. 

No matter where you are, I hope that you and your family are healthy and safe.

We’ve almost got this thing beat.

Let’s hope that the new year will bring some better fortune for our little planet. 

Happy New Year Everyone! 新年快樂

Josh 


Cyberbullying and Harassment in Taiwan

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Let me start out with a disclaimer that this isn’t intended to be a ‘woe is me’ article.

I try my best to live a happy life and take pride in the fact that I surround myself with productive and positive people, who are doing great things with their own lives.

None of what I’m about to detail affects me in the kind of way that would result in any sort of self-harm. I’m perfectly okay. Unfortunately though, not everyone is like me. This is why I’m documenting my experiences here with the hope that if anyone finds themselves in a similar situation that they can better understand their options and not make the same mistakes I have. 

For the majority of you reading this, what I’m about to talk about will all be new information. 

I’ve never been one that advertises my problems to the world, so with the exception of a few close friends (as well as others who have been affected by this), I’ve mostly just internalized all of this and not mentioned it. I think though, as things escalate, that it’s about time that I detail some of this information so that people can understand what I’ve had to endure for the past couple of years. 

Before I start though, due to Taiwan’s defamation laws, I will not be mentioning the names of anyone involved. Likewise, I would appreciate it if you would not ask me privately for this persons name. If you are one of the select few who are privy to know who this person is, please don’t write their name in any public space where I’m involved. 

You might be thinking, wow, this seems serious. 

I guess you could say that - I wouldn’t be using this space to publish this information if it wasn’t, but at the same time, its also extremely insignificant and probably just an annoyance that people like me all over the world have to put up with.

Anyway, getting to the point, I have a stalker. 

Or maybe you could say a “cyberbully” or an “online troll.” 

My Stalker Story

Whatever you’d like to call it, for the past few years I’ve had to endure the harassment of someone who has projected all their life’s failures onto me. 

Initially I was naive about all of this, so when the harassment got to a certain point, I just decided to block this person and sever any means of contact. 

The problem though is that this person has well over a dozen accounts on Twitter that they use to stalk and harass people. They’re kind of a professional when it comes to this stuff. 

So when a friend tweeted something about this person (who like myself is an expat in Taiwan) profiting by reporting local Taiwanese people for their traffic infractions, I made the mistake of calling them a “tattletale” in a public space. 

A few weeks later I received a summons from the police and was informed that I was having a defamation lawsuit filed against me. 

The seal hunt doesn’t take place in Nova Scotia. But hey, thats where I’m from.

So, after speaking with a lawyer about the situation, I compiled a folder full of the history of harassing tweets that this person directed at me. When I arrived at the police station in Taipei, the investigator in charge took a recorded interview and asked questions that allowed me to explain my side of things.

When the camera was turned off, the investigator informed me that I didn’t really have to waste my time preparing the folder full of tweets as this individual was a repeat offender (in terms of filing frivolous lawsuits) and that my being there was just a formality. He went on to explain that we had absolutely nothing to worry about and that this was going no where.  

And he was right, the lawsuit was thrown out. 

Before that happened though, I had a photo exhibition in Taipei, which I had promoted through this website and on my social media - and wouldn’t you guess it, this person showed up. 

So, in front of about fifty friends, this person (who had just filed a lawsuit against me) was just hanging out listening to my awkward speech and (probably) enjoying my photos! 

So what did I do? I took a selfie with the back of their head (more on this later)

Unfortunately this wasn’t the only time this has happened. 

I have an ex-boyfriend? Wish I knew who he was.

I’ve had this person stalk me in person on several occasions - even coming all the way Taoyuan to enjoy another of my photo exhibitions. 

When the lawsuit was thrown out, you’d think that would have been the end of it, but the ruling was promptly appealed to a higher court. Why? Because apparently *I* was stalking him. 

That case was promptly thrown out as well. 

This is where things started to get worse. 

All of this time I’ve had this person blocked but the number of accounts that they used to stalk me (as well as others in the Taiwan media community) media started growing and (unfortunately) they had a pretty good grasp of Taiwan’s defamation laws. They knew that they could basically say whatever they want as long as they were vague and didn’t use my name. 

So, for the past two years I’ve had to endure targeted harassment about my appearance, my nationality, my heritage, where I live, having a dog, writing blogs, my photos, etc. etc. etc.

It has even been put forward that since I studied Mandarin at the prestigious Peking University language school that I shouldn’t be allowed to live in Taiwan as I might be a communist spy. 

Arrest me! I’m a communist spy!

Schoolyard bully kind of behaviour - Except that this is coming from a 50 year old man.

You might think this is easy enough to ignore, but the area where Twitter fails at protecting its users is that even if you block a person, they are still able to reply to anyone who replies to you. So, even though I’ve had this person blocked for years, they spend all their time scouring Twitter for people who have replied to me just so they can get their digs in.

Fortunately the vast majority of people in the Taiwan Twitter community are well aware of what’s going on and this person and their accounts have become quite infamous.  

You might be thinking: Why don’t you just leave Twitter? 

I’ve considered that. I’ve actually put quite a bit of thought into it. 

But as I mentioned above, I surround myself with people doing great things and a lot of them are posting their work on Twitter - I don’t want to miss out on what they’re doing. 

And let’s say I did let this person force me off of Twitter, what would stop them from moving to Facebook, Instagram or anywhere I have an online presence? I can’t just let this person force me to disappear because they have some infantile vendetta. 

Its also important to mention that a lot of these cool people that I stay on Twitter for are also being stalked and harassed by the same individual and even though they haven’t had lawsuits filed against them (although many of them have been threatened), they’re more or less in the same boat as I am. 

So where have I made mistakes? 

Admittedly after a couple of years of this harassment, I thought that if I could only just get this person mad enough to say my name that I could file my own lawsuit with the hope of filing a restraining order. Unfortunately I’m not good at bringing myself down to their level and I wasn’t consistent enough so that never worked.

My mistakes were simple: 

  1. I gave this person the attention that they desired. 

  2. I brought myself down to their level. 

  3. I looked like an asshole in a public space. 

What happened as a result of these mistakes was that people who had been harassed by this person in the past started contacting me. They had stories. Scary stories. Things that person did in the country that they lived in before fleeing to Taiwan which proved to me just how absolutely sad a life they live.

They also provided advice on how to cope. 

Eventually though I decided to make my Twitter account protected to save myself from the never-ending barrage of sub-tweets. This has protected me for the time being and for the past few months I’ve completely ignored the pathetic existence of this sad individual.

This is why I’m not bothered all that much by their psychological projection - They might be an absolute failure in every aspect of their personal, professional and family life, but it doesn’t mean I need to let them drag me down with them.

I’m just going to keep doing my thing.

Unfortunately the problem is that I’m not their only target and several of my friends also had to deal with daily barrages of stupidity this person, so even though I want nothing to do with this person, people still come to me looking for advice. 

After several years of having to deal with this, all I can do is provide people with a list of the accounts I know this person use and offer this advice:  

  1. You should never reply to this person. Ignore at all costs.

  2. You should never use their name in a public space.  

  3. All harassing tweets and correspondence must be documented. 

Cyberbullying

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Taiwan’s laws don’t protect victims from stalkers, cyberbullies or serial-harassers. 

In 2015, the issue of internet bullying became a topic of national discussion when a local television personality, Cindy Yang (楊又穎) committed suicide. The high-profile young woman, who also happened to be the daughter of the Agriculture Minister, left a note that blamed her coworkers and cyberbullies for her death. 

Cindy’s death attracted a certain level of national discourse about the subject, but when the outrage over her untimely death wore off and the media moved on to the next juicy topic, the push for change likewise faded out.  

Link: Cindy Yang (楊又穎) | Family confirms entertainer Cindy victimized by online bullying

Sadly, most of the news we see these days with regard to cyberbullying originates in Korea where the angry uncontrollable masses of anonymous people on the internet seem to have figured out that they are able to bully young celebrities into submission. After a string of suicides within the K-pop world, it seems like the government there is finally starting to take the topic of cyberbullying seriously. 

Link: Cyber bullying, star suicides: The dark side of South Korea’s K-pop world

South Korea draws up cyberbulling laws after second K-pop suicide

Back here in Taiwan, in the years since Cindy’s untimely death, there have been numerous incidents where celebrities, politicians and others have committed suicide due to the concerted effort of their stalkers. 

In 2018 for example, Su Chii-cherng (蘇啟誠), the director-general of the Osaka branch of the Taipei Economic and Cultural Office, committed suicide after a barrage of fake news and online hate generated from people in Taiwan over the way his office responded to a typhoon in Japan.

Link: Osaka envoy commits suicide (Taipei Times)

While high-profile cases of cyberbullying often make the news here in Taiwan, what shouldn’t surprise you are the amount of cases that you don’t hear about - especially when it comes to children and youths. 

According to studies done on the subject, around 76% percent of youth surveyed in Taiwan have experienced cyberbullying or seen it taking place. Research from the Child Welfare League Foundation (兒童福利聯盟文教基金會) explains that the most common types of cyberbullying in Taiwan are verbal attack (61.1%), defamation (47.7%), alienation (46.1%) and doxing (40.9%). The study also found that over half (53.5%) of the respondents claimed to have been bullied online at some point in their life.  

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Links: Cyberbullying among Children and Youths in Taiwan - 2016 | “I felt angry, but I couldn’t do anything about it”: a qualitative study of cyberbullying among Taiwanese high school students. | Cabinet Approves Anti-Stalking, Harassment bill (Focus Taiwan)

The unfortunate thing is that the majority of these cases never receive any proper attention from parents, school authorities, the police or the government, so the study found that only around 43% of cases are reported in one way or another.

Adolescents report that most of these cases of online bullying originate on social media which shouldn’t particularly be surprising as Facebook and PTT (a popular forum in Taiwan) are full of so-called ‘Kaobei’ (靠北) pages where people are able to post ‘anonymous’ criticisms of others in a public forum. Likewise there are many “unofficial” school groups throughout social-media where students are able to ostracize each other in a public setting which leads not only to verbal attacks and defamation but isolation, which in an Asian cultural context is probably the worst. 

The Department of Education has attempted to address the issue by producing literature and posting it throughout schools to help educate students about the dangers of taking part in cyberbullying, but has so far has failed to come up with proper prevention programs or a system of punishment for those taking part. 

The government likewise has yet to respond with any meaningful policy or solution for punishing those who perpetrate such crimes. The only recent response is a laughable suggestion from members of Taiwan’s fringe New Party (新黨) who suggest making use of corporal punishment as a method of punishing cyberbullies. 

Link: Taiwan’s New Party suggests caning to stop cyber bullying

As a growing public health concern, if the government doesn’t find a way to offer legal respite to those people being victimized in a timely fashion, the problem is only going to continue and may eventually escalate to a point where it is going to become much more common for the victims of cyberbullying to resort to extreme actions. 

2021 Update: Once again, stalking has come to the forefront of the public consciousness with the brutal murder of a young woman in southern Taiwan’s Pingtung County (屏東縣) a man who had been stalking her for quite some time, and whom she had already reported to the police, to no avail.

Murder of Pingtung Woman Leads to Calls for Stronger Anti-Stalking Legislation (New Bloom)

Pingtung man accused of killing woman detained (Taipei Times)

Update #2: Due to the above incident, the cabinet has approved a Draft Bill against stalking and harassment that aims to broadening the legal definition of stalking and harassment and allow early intervention by law enforcement officers to protect victims.

Cabinet approves draft bill against stalking, harassment (Focus Taiwan)

2021 Update #2: The case mentioned about gave the government a little extra motivation to actually pass a law that protects people from stalkers. On November 19th, the new “Anti-Stalking Law” (跟蹤騷擾防制法) passed its third reading in the legislature and is scheduled to come into effect within the next six months.

Link: 跟騷法三讀通過!八大騷擾樣態 最重五年徒刑 (UDN)

As it stands, the law defines harassment and stalking as repeated usage of ‘persons, vehicles, tools, equipment, electronic communications, Internet or other methods’ against a specific person that violates their will, affects their daily life or social activities.’

2021 Update #3: President Tsai officially signed the new Anti-Stalking legislation into law on December 1st, and it will come into effect in mid-2022.

Link: New anti-stalking bill signed into law by President Tsai (Focus Taiwan)

2022 Update #1: Excellent news: the National Police Agency is set to establish an emergency response team in preparation for the enactment of the Stalking and Harassment Prevention act that will come into effect on June 1st, 2022. Key take away: “The new law lists eight types of behavior as constituting stalking and harassment, including spying on and trailing, following and approaching, threatening and insulting, and online harassment” which looks like reports of stalking and harassment will be handled seriously.

Link: National Police Agency establishes stalking and harassment response team (Focus Taiwan)

Motivations for Cyberbullying 

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While the issue of cyberbullying is pervasive here in Taiwan, there hasn’t been as many studies on its causes and effects as there have been in western countries. 

A study by the University of Toronto defines bullying and cyberbullying as follows: 

Bullying is a form of aggression which can be direct or indirect, and includes hostile physical, verbal, psychological, or relational behaviours towards another person. It is typically intentional, commonly occurring within an existing relationship and including some type of a power imbalance between the individuals involved. The aggressive behaviour is also usually repeated. 

Cyberbullying is the use of ICTs to engage in bullying behaviour, including intent to harm, a specific target, and a power imbalance. Involvement in cyberbullying as a perpetrator or as a victim has the potential to significantly affect children and youth’s mental health and well-being. Victimized youth often report feeling sad, anxious, afraid and unable to concentrate, and frequently experience social difficulties. Victimized youth may also be at increased rick for many problematic behaviours, such as substance use and elevated suicidality. Similarly, perpetrators are less likely to show empathy and may struggle with low self-esteem, depression, and problem behaviours.  

Despite important similarities to traditional non-ICT bullying, cyberbullying is unique in a number of ways. ICTs enable cyberbullying to occur anytime and anywhere, and victimization can take place beyond the settings where bullying occurs, potentially preventing victims from ever feeling safe. Cyberbullying can be also be more upsetting than bullying, particularly because it is hard to escape. Another key difference is the degree of anonymity involved. Although there is a perception that cyberbullying is completely anonymous, it often is not. It is a common misconception that cyberbullying occurs most often among individuals who do not know one another. Most incidents, however, actually occur among friends or acquaintances, just like bullying. Yet, while the perpetrator and victimized youth typically have some sort of existing relationship, perpetrators might be able to remain anonymous - at least for a period of time. Finally, one of the most devastating effects of cyberbullying is that the far full images and comments can circulate far and wide and for an indefinite period of time. Cyberbullying incidents may involve a limitless number of potential witnesses, perpetuating the negative consequences for the victim. Cyberbullying content is also far more reproducible as text, images and video can be distributed very quickly to a wide audience. 

Note: “ICT” (Information and Communication Technologies) refers to modes of mass-communication using the internet and social media.

Link: Motivations for Cyberbullying: A longitudinal and multi-perspective inquiry (University of Toronto)

The key takeaways here are that cyberbullying is ‘persistent’, ‘permanent’ and ‘difficult to regulate’, which is why it has a much more long-lasting effect on people than traditional bullying. 

The motivations for this type of behaviour tend to vary from place to place, but here in Taiwan researchers have found that there are many sociocultural characteristics that contribute to the pervasiveness of cyberbullying.

These motivations include: jealousy, discrimination, revenge, punishment and just for fun. 

Specific to Taiwan is that cyberbullying generally causes a “sense of isolation, helplessness, or hopelessness even producing mental health effects in the victims because people place the utmost importance on interpersonal harmony due to the Confucian values in collectivistic Asian societies.” (BMC Public Health)

While the focus of many of the studies about the effects of cyberbullying are on children, it goes without saying that it is also pervasive within work culture and almost anywhere you go on social media where anonymity gives people (like my stalker) an outlet for taking out all their anger at the world on others.

Defamation and Public Humiliation Laws in Taiwan

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While the government has a lot of work to do in addressing the topic of cyberbullying, there are a couple of laws within the criminal code (刑法) that allow people to file lawsuits against those perpetuating these types of behaviour. The problem however is that these articles are often abused meaning that the burden of proof in any lawsuit that you file needs to really strong.

If you’ve been in Taiwan long enough, you’ve likely seen photos or news stories of politicians posing in front of the court with their hands on a doorbell signifying that they’re getting ready to file a defamation lawsuit of some kind. Freedom House, which gives Taiwan a 9/30 for its ‘Legal Environment’ notes that Taiwan’s defamation laws “are frequently exploited by politicians who wield them against their adversaries within the politically polarized media landscape”. This callous behaviour and rampant misuse of the justice system has led to thousands of frivolous cases filed each year making most people in power feel like the law is a tool for silencing critics with unnecessary court battles. 

Generally speaking, what this means is that the articles of the criminal code that are currently in place are somewhat useless with regard to protecting real victims of public humiliation and defamation due to the fact that these cases fail to be prosecuted most of the time. 

The other problem, which many legal scholars in Taiwan consider to be “backwards” is that in the year 2000, libel laws started to be prosecuted under the criminal code, rather than the civil code. This is precarious for a number of reasons.  

Legal scholar I-Hsien Weng (翁乙仙) on the changes: 

“As for insult, most countries do not criminalize it because the concept of insult is too unpredictable, and criminalization would overly interfere with freedom of speech. From my point of view, if we cannot clarify facts and value, libel and insult or the legal interests which criminal defamation law seeks to protect, we will be helpless when handling actual cases. Therefore, if we want to apply criminal defamation law constitutionally, the criminal code must be amended or re-interpreted. Otherwise, we should lay the offence of criminal defamation aside.”

What this essentially means is that if you say something that someone else considers inappropriate, but not actually libelous, you could still be fined and left with a criminal record. Likewise, the real victims are often left with little ability protect themselves as the court systems are jam-packed with frivolous cases. Kelly Warner law Associates, an American law firm with an office in Taipei remarked that the major difference between America and Taiwan is that in America, “public figures, especially officials, receive less protection in defamation cases” while here in Taiwan “courts seems to prefer protecting political officials more than civilians and other public figures.” (Source)

Mossy from Ni Hao’s it Going expanded on these comments in his article about Taiwan’s libel laws: “instead of preventing rich people from abusing the criminal code, the law is now allowing businesses, politicians, and individuals to offset criticism and sue other individuals, businesses, and journalists for openly discussing factual information.” 

Link: The Problem of Taiwan’s Libel Laws - How to Avoid Being Sued

What’s worse, if you’re a foreigner in Taiwan, a criminal record could result in difficulty keeping your resident visa and (depending on the severity of the situation) you could ultimately be deported. Likewise, if you’re a tourist and you find yourself in trouble, you may be prevented from leaving the country until the court makes a decision.

So let’s take a look at the two articles of the criminal code that address Public Humiliation and Defamation and what they can do to help you out. 

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Article 309 Public Humiliation (刑法第309條)

A person who publicly insults another shall be sentenced to short-term imprisonment or a fine of not more than nine thousand yuan.

「公然侮辱人者,處拘役或九千元以下罰金。」

A person who by violence commits an offense (specified in the preceding paragraph) shall be sentenced to imprisonment for not more than one year, short-term imprisonment, or a fine of not more than fifteen thousand yuan.

「以強暴犯前項之罪者,處一年以下有期徒刑、拘役或一萬五千元以下罰金」

Link: English | 中文

Article 309 of the Criminal Code is probably the article that applies most to cyberbullying and harassment. The article states that if found guilty, the punishment is short-term imprisonment (up to two years) or a fine of either $9000 to $15,000NT.  

While the definition of public insult is a broad term according to the law, what you should keep in mind is that there are a few things to consider when making an accusation of public humiliation, especially with regard to cyberbullying: 

  1. They made negative comments directly using your name.

  2. They gave you a nickname and made negative comments. 

  3. They spread untrue or unproven information about you. 

  4. They posted photos or videos of you that are indecent or doctored. 

  5. They held a sort of “poll” online which casts you in a negative light. 

Most of this is quite straight forward, but when it comes to nicknames, you have to be able to prove that they’re referring to “you” and not just someone else in general. This can be difficult. The bar is also set pretty low for what constitutes public humiliation, so even if you think you don’t have a case against your bully, its very likely under Taiwan’s laws that you do. 

What is important to remember is that if you stand up to a cyberbully/stalker and give them the attention that they’re trying to get by responding, you’re also making the mistake of making yourself liable to become victim of a frivolous lawsuit. Don’t make the same mistake I did.  

Article 310 Defamation (刑法310條) 

A person who points out or disseminates a fact which will injure the reputation of another for purpose that it be communicated to the pubic commits the offense of slander and shall be sentenced to imprisonment for not more than one year, short-term imprisonment, or a fine of not more than fifteen thousand yuan.

「意圖散布於眾,而指摘或傳述足以毀損他人名譽之事者,為誹謗罪,處一年以下有期徒刑、拘役或一萬五千元以下罰金。」

A person who by circulating a writing or drawing commits an offense specified in the preceding paragraph shall be sentenced to imprisonment for not more than two years, short-term imprisonment, or a fine of not more than thirty thousand yuan.

「散布文字、圖畫犯前項之罪者,處二年以下有期徒刑、拘役或三萬元以下罰金。」

A person who can prove the truth of the defamatory fact shall not be punished for the offense of defamation unless the fact concerns private life and is of no public concern.

「對於所誹謗之事,能證明其為真實者,不罰。但涉於私德而與公共利益無關者,不在此限。」

Link: English | 中文

So what all of this means is that if someone is convicted under Article 310 of the Criminal Code is that at maximum you can be sentenced to short-term imprisonment (up to two years) or be forced to pay a fine of $15,000 - $30,000NT. 

This goes not only for something you say or do in person, but for anything printed or published online through writing or drawing and includes “spreading untrue statements”, “defaming by composing indecent photos or videos” and “uploading inappropriate or confidential photos or videos to the internet for the purpose of showing others”. 

This means that if you’re walking across the crosswalk and some guy comes speeding through in his car and you give them the middle finger, you could have a lawsuit filed against you. Sure, they were in the wrong, they should have yielded to pedestrians. But you hurt their feelings. 

It also means that if you get into an argument on social media and (as things usually go on the internet) the conversation devolves into ad hominem attacks, you are also liable to be sued. 

The Kelly Warner Law Firm in Taipei notes on their website that “as of June 27, 2011, a Taiwanese blogger, was sentenced to 30 days in detention and ordered to pay NT$200,000 (about $9,000) for allegedly writing a defamatory review about a local restaurant. The blogger wrote that the dish she had ordered was too salty and that there were cockroaches on the restaurant premises. The restaurant refuted these claims, sued, and won their claim.” 

Likewise in 2012, “a Taiwanese was convicted in a civil suit for defamation and was ordered to pay $8000 TWD in compensation ($270) for making insulting remarks about her sister-in-law’s breasts, claiming that the sister-in-law did not have any.“ (Source)

Link: The Discussion of Possible Punishments of Cyberbullying in Taiwan and its reflection on Education

Of special interest in the final paragraph is that you can also have a lawsuit filed against you in a civil suit. So, even if you were found innocent (or guilty) in a criminal trial, you may also have to defend yourself in a civil suit, which is considerably more expensive. You may even have to deal with both a criminal and a civil suit at the same time! 

In 2018 for example, former President Ma Ying-jeou (馬英九) successfully received a ruling in his favour in a defamation suit against television personality Clara Chou (周玉蔻). The former president simultaneously filed criminal and civil charges against Ms. Chou and demanded NT$ 10,000,000 in compensation as well as an open apology. 

When all was said and done, the court ruled that Ms. Chou had to pay NT $1,800,000 in compensation for the civil suit and she was sentences to 50 days in jail. 

Link: Ma wins NT$1.8 million in defamation suit against TV pundit (Focus Taiwan)

Civil suits however are quite expensive and unlike criminal suits, if you file frivolous charges against someone, you won’t be punished for wasting the time of the person(s) you’ve sued or the investigators who are required by law to follow through on any complaint. In fact, in a civil court proceeding, the plaintiff is required to advance the court fees, which are calculated based on the value of the claim in addition to their own attorneys fees. 

This typically causes most people to stop and think about how far they’re willing to go. 

Link: Taiwan Code of Civil Procedure - English | 中文

Civil Code Article 184 (民法184條)

「因故意或過失,不法侵害他人之權利者,負損害賠償責任。故意以背於善良風俗之方法,加損害於他人者亦同。」

A person who, intentionally or negligently, has wrongfully damaged the rights of another is bound to compensate him for any injury arising therefrom. The same rule shall be applied when the injury is done intentionally in a manner against the rules of morals.

「違反保護他人之法律,致生損害於他人者,負賠償責任。但能證明其行為無過失者,不在此限。」

A person, who violates a statutory provision enacted for the protection of others and therefore prejudice to others, is bound to compensate for the injury, except no negligence in his act can be proved.

Civil Code Article 195 (民法195條)

「不法侵害他人之身體、健康、名譽、自由、信用、隱私、貞操,或不法侵害其他人格法益而情節重大者,被害人雖非財產上之損害,亦得請求賠償相當之金額。其名譽被侵害者,並得請求回復名譽之適當處分。」

If a person has wrongfully damaged to the body, health, reputation, liberty, credit, privacy or chastity of another, or to another's personality in a severe way, the injured person may claim a reasonable compensation in money even if such injury is not a purely pecuniary loss. If it was reputation that has been damaged, the injured person may also claim the taking of proper measures for the rehabilitation of his reputation.

「前項請求權,不得讓與或繼承。但以金額賠償之請求權已依契約承諾,或已起訴者,不在此限。前二項規定,於不法侵害他人基於父、母、子、女或配偶關係之身分法益而情節重大者,準用之。」

The claim of the preceding paragraph shall not be transferred or inherited, except a claim for compensation in money has been promised by contract or has been commenced.

The provisions of the preceding two paragraphs shall be mutatis mutandis’ applied when a person has wrongfully damaged to another's status based on the relationship to their father, mother, sons, daughters, or spouse in a severe way.

Link: Litigation and Dispute Resolution (Taiwan)

Protecting Yourself 

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First and foremost, if you have any questions or need any legal advice, feel free to contact the good people at the Taiwan Legal Aid Foundation. It never hurts to ask. 

Unfortunately the Taiwanese justice system currently offers very little protection for victims of cyberbullying, stalking and harassment from further victimization. 

Restraining orders aren’t really a thing here, so unfortunately (especially for women) the sad reality is that the only way that you can get justice from these individuals is after they’ve either put you in the hospital or worse, killed you.

So, with this in mind, what can you do to avoid cyberbullies? 

Official literature suggests that you “Develop a high EQ”   

From my personal experience, I can attest that there is some wisdom to this suggestion. 

One of the most difficult lessons to learn in life is self-control and it is completely understandable and natural that when you’re being attacked that you defend yourself. 

It might however be healthier to just bite your lip. I know it is easier said than done, but instead of replying in the heat of the moment, take some time to cool off and think about the shit storm you’re about to insert yourself into and whether or not it is worth it. 

People who actively take part in cyberbullying thrive off of the attention they receive from the people they attack. If you respond to these people, you’re showing them that you’re fair game and that their attempts to get a rise out of you have been successful. This stimulates their aggressive nature and gives them more incentive to continue what they’re doing.

And yeah, even though you might think I’m crazy to suggest this, you should probably feel a bit of empathy for these people. It is important to realize that those who make a habit out of bullying others online are doing so because they are going through a difficult time and need help and support themselves. Happy and secure people don’t bully others, so there is obviously something wrong with their lives that has made them become like this. 

Don’t Respond

If someone attacks you on the internet, it’s better to not even bother responding to them. Don’t retaliate, don’t feed the troll and don’t bring yourself down to their level by responding to their attacks with attacks of your own. Don’t bring yourself down to their level. 

Block and Report 

If you feel like someone is targeting you with persistent attacks, just block them. Remove whatever access they have to you and that should remove the problem. 

And hey, while you’re at it, why don’t you report them as well? Every social media platform offers users the option of reporting abusive behaviour, so if you opt to report, you could be saving others from abuse as well. Likewise if the person attacking you is a classmate or co-worker, find the appropriate authority to report the behaviour. 

Screenshot Everything

For your own protection, it is important to learn how to take screenshots on whatever device you’re using. It is a good idea to keep a record of any or all comments that your bully sends your way. Comments on social media are easily edited or deleted, so if you have a record of the abuse, you may be able to make a case with the authorities. 

Control your Privacy 

Controlling your Privacy Settings on social media is always a good practice - even if you haven’t attracted the attention of a cyberbully. Social media is a useful tool, but if you want to protect yourself, it is important to understand the privacy settings offered by each of the platforms you use.

As I mentioned above, it’s important to block these people, but if you have an open account on Twitter for example, even if you block them, they can still see everything you post. So, you may want to consider having a “protected” account. Controlling your privacy settings as well as your friends/followers list and curating your feeds are all useful in defending yourself. 

In my personal experience, having a protected account has helped to reduce the amount of harassment I’ve received from this person. Has it stopped completely? No. They still try hard to get my attention, but they’re not getting it.

Control Yourself

When someone is attacking you, like I said, it’s better not to respond. You’ll see other sites on the internet that discuss cyberbullying giving suggestions like: “Make a 30 second rule” or “Put down your phone, go for a walk and then reply later.” How about instead, learning some self control?

  1. Don’t respond.

  2. Don’t check for updates.

  3. Don’t re-read the comments over and over again.

  4. Take a break from the internet.

  5. Learn how to manage your stress in a positive way. 

There are many other positive things that you can do with your time - Spending all day arguing and defending yourself on the internet certainly isn’t one of them, so if you can, control yourself.

Talk with Friends

When you’re being bullied, having people around you who you can turn to for support is really important. If you have the ability to reach out to others to discuss the problems that you’re having, you will have a much easier time processing what’s happening which should in turn ease your stress and boost your self-confidence.

Talk to your friends, your family, teachers or anyone you feel comfortable discussing your situation with.

Don’t internalize bullying and harassment, find someone who can support you and tell them your story.

It also helps that other people know about your situation if something extreme happens.

In the early days, we were idealistic and figured that the internet would be the tool that could bring us together as a global community and that all of the petty differences that divided us in the past would magically disappear. Unfortunately, even though the internet has changed so much about our lives in a positive way, it hasn’t been that magical tool that brings us together in the way that we imagined. In fact, society today is just as divided as it has ever been and the internet has become a tool for hateful individuals to spread their negativity on a global stage. 

I sincerely hope that at some point we figure out how to use this amazing tool in a responsible and positive way, but until then, it is important that you know how to protect yourself from the predators that are lurking throughout the web. 

I also hope that the Taiwanese government properly addresses the growing epidemic of harassment and cyberbullying and makes sensible changes to the existing laws to protect victims.

Until then, try to protect yourself, treat others with respect and try your best to make your online experience a positive one. 

And remember, Don’t feed the trolls.